How to Choose the Right Wedding Photographer: 5 Must-Ask Questions from a Lubbock Wedding Photographer
Choosing your wedding photographer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during the planning process. These are the images you’ll revisit for the rest of your life; the moments, emotions, and details that tell your story long after the day is over.
To help guide brides through the process, The Venue Concierge connected with seasoned wedding photographer, Kirsten Prater, to share the five essential questions every bride should ask during a photographer interview, along with why they matter and how she approaches each one.
1. “What is your photography style?”
One of the first and most important questions to ask is about a photographer’s style. Why? Because while trends come and go, your wedding photos should feel authentic to you and stand the test of time.
For Kirsten, her approach is rooted in creating images that feel both vibrant and enduring. She describes her style as bright, colorful, and true-to-life with a timeless quality.
Her galleries reflect a balance of candid, emotional moments, naturally guided portraits, and the subtle in-between moments couples often don’t even realize are happening. The result is a collection of images that feel honest, effortless, and deeply personal.
2. “How do you help us feel comfortable in front of the camera?”
For many couples, being in front of a camera can feel intimidating, which is exactly why this question matters. A great photographer doesn’t just take photos; they create an environment where you can relax and be yourselves.
Kirsten takes a hands-on, encouraging approach, guiding couples through everything—from simple posing to natural interaction—so nothing ever feels stiff or forced.
As many of her couples share, “I was so nervous, but you made it feel effortless!” Kirsten says that’s always the goal. When couples feel at ease, it naturally leads to more genuine, relaxed, and meaningful images.
3. “What is included in your wedding packages?”
Not all wedding photography packages are created equal, which is why this is such an important question to ask. You want to leave the conversation knowing exactly what’s included and how it supports your full wedding experience from beginning to end.
Kirsten recommends asking a few key follow-up questions, such as:
How many hours of coverage are included?
Is a bridal session part of the package?
Do you include a second shooter?
How many images will we receive and how are they delivered?
Beyond the basics, it’s worth looking for photographers who go the extra mile. As Kirsten puts it for her clients, “Couples receive print rights and access to professional products, ensuring their images are not only viewed but preserved beautifully.”
4. “How do you handle timelines and the flow of the wedding day?”
A well-planned timeline can make all the difference on a wedding day. Without structure, moments can feel rushed or missed entirely. With the right guidance, the day flows seamlessly.
Kirsten plays an active role in helping couples build their photography timeline from start to finish. From getting ready in the morning to sunset portraits and reception coverage, she ensures every key moment is thoughtfully planned.
As she explains, “It’s important to find a a photographer that has a plan and can anticipate timing, lighting, and transitions so couples don’t have to worry about what comes next.” That way, couples can stay fully present, enjoy their day, and trust that everything is being handled behind the scenes.
5. “Why should we choose you as our photographer?”
This final question goes beyond logistics, it’s about trust, connection, and overall experience.
Kirsten believes her role extends far beyond taking photos. She approaches each wedding with a servant’s heart, ensuring her couples feel supported from the moment they book. Her calm, organized presence helps create a sense of ease throughout the day.
Couples often find that she becomes more than just their photographer. She’s a steady guide, a problem solver, a “dress fluffer”, and even a built-in hype girl when needed. Above all, she delivers bright, timeless images that couples will treasure for years to come.
Her ultimate goal is simple: for every couple to look back and feel confident that choosing her was one of the best decisions they made.
Final Thoughts From The Venue Concierge
When searching for the right wedding photographer, asking the right questions can make all the difference. Beyond portfolios and pricing, it’s about finding someone who understands your vision, supports your experience, and captures your day with care.
Having personally worked alongside Kirsten Prater, we can confidently stand behind her approach and the experience she delivers. We always encourage couples to ask these important questions, but just as importantly, to trust their instincts when they find the right fit.
Because in the end, your photographer is more than a vendor. They are the one who will be by your side, capturing every meaningful moment as your story unfolds.
